Having been kidnapped by Boko Haram , held for almost a year, and raped by several militants, 28-year-old Aisha Umar could have been forgiven for believing her ordeal was
over when she escaped and returned to her hometown in northeast Nigeria last year.
But the mother-of-four was forced to flee her home in the town of Gwoza a fortnight ago when a man threatened to murder her two-year-old boy Mohammed, the son of a Boko
Haram fighter.
"He told me that if I didn't take the child away, he would
buy petrol and set the boy on fire until he burned to ashes, "Umar told the Thomson Reuters Foundation by phone from
Madagali, 22 km (14 miles) away, where she now lives with her brother.
The man, who saw Boko Haram kill three of his children, was one of many people in Gwoza who made it clear to
Umar that her son was not welcome in the community since their return home. "People didn't want to play with the child ... they called him Boko Haram child," Umar said, adding that she received the
most abuse from those who had lost relatives to Boko Haram.
Women who are former Boko Haram captives, and their children born out of rape, face mistrust and persecution
when they return home, according to a report by peacebuilding group International Alert and the U.N. children's agency UNICEF.
Many people fear those held by the Islamist militant group have been radicalised and may recruit others when they
return home, said the report, which was published earlier this year.
More than 2,000 women and girls have been abducted by Boko Haram since 2012, many of whom have been raped,
trained to fight, or used as suicide bombers, according to the report. Joint operations between Nigeria and neighbouring countries
succeeded in driving Boko Haram from many of its strongholds last year but the Islamists have stepped up cross-border attacks and suicide bombings, many of them
carried out by young girls.
"There is a belief that the blood of the father will always run
in a child's veins and therefore that these children will
eventually turn on their families and communities ," said
Rachel Harvey , chief of child protection for UNICEF in
Nigeria.
"BOKO HARAM CHILD"
Umar was kidnapped in August 2014 by Boko Haram
militants who shot her husband in the head before taking
her into Sambisa Forest , a vast colonial-era game reserve
where the militants hide in secluded camps to avoid the
Nigerian military.
Umar believes the militant to whom she was married is the
father of her two-year-old son. He was named Mohammed
Yusuf after Boko Haram's founder, who died in police
custody in 2009.
When she returned home to Gwoza last year and learned
that her three children from her murdered husband had
been taken in by a neighbour, the family were overjoyed to
be reunited.
"But people started telling them that their brother was a
Boko Haram child, " she said, adding that the three children
became increasingly reluctant to play with Mohammed.
"My oldest daughter told me: 'Mummy, please, take this
child to his father and come back to us '."
Despite moving to Madagali in Adamawa state, Umar is
facing fresh stigma as people become aware of her son's
heritage.
Her relatives do not want to touch Mohammed while people
point at her in public and keep their distance, Umar said. Recalling how she secretly plotted her escape from Sambisa
with dozens of other women, Umar talks of how she
carefully strapped her toddler to her back as she fled to
keep him safe.
Yet the abuse she has suffered since escaping Boko Haram
has pushed her to breaking point.
"If I had someone to take this child away from me, I would
welcome the idea ."
Source: Pulse
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